Men with families seek women outside of marriage.
Deep down, they’re not really looking for emotional connection. Just seeking a relaxed, enjoyable feeling with someone.
It’s a temporary escape from the nagging of children, wives, parents, as well as the pressures of work and life.
Men who stray don’t necessarily expect women to be very pretty or capable, just somewhat attractive to feel good mentally.
Essentially, extramarital affairs are basically emotionless.
A man’s infidelity boils down to “these 3 points”. The rest is just women overthinking.
“Exploration, Fresh Play”
When men are bored, they easily fall prey to the alluring women online, sparking fantasies.
These women are cultivated within the male circles.
They provide men with fresh play, especially in bed. They understand men’s thoughts on extramarital affairs well.
Men keep exploring the world outside marriage. Once lured by these women, it’s just a matter of time.
Men, with some serious responsibilities and helping their wives with household chores and taking care of children and elders, don’t have the energy to seek extramarital affairs.
Because these men are satisfied as long as they have food to eat.
As for whether their wives are doing well, if their children have opportunities for better education, or if they can work harder themselves, they don’t have the time or ability to consider or achieve it.
All they have is a dollar in their pocket, and they would spend it on those scumbags outside of marriage.
Satisfying their own desires without eating rotten meat.
They think they would eat even if the meat is rotten. As long as they’re alive, they can enjoy a fresh taste.
“No Responsibility, Just Making Do”
Men seek extramarital affairs for relaxation and fun.
They hope the women outside marriage have no demands, don’t restrain them, and don’t require any responsibility.
They can contact them whenever they want for a moment of pleasure.
Once done, they go back to work and make money. As long as there are no entanglements, no unattainable demands, and no cost involved.
They can freely come and go, return home anytime, and just make do together.
Taking advantage is human nature, and it’s the nature of cheating men.
“No Impact, Can Just Live in Mediocrity”
Men seek novelty outside, yet they understand the importance of their wives to the family.
They don’t want extramarital women to disturb their families, as long as it doesn’t affect their children or cause trouble for their families.
They can satisfy their physical needs and provide some money within the limits of pocket money.
If extramarital women become too greedy and make excessive demands, or if it jeopardizes the stable family structure, men will cut ties with them.
When men go out to play, they have calculated.
They seek ways to have fun outside while preserving their families at minimal cost.
These are the majority of cheating men, always calculating how to balance both.
Men who cheat are just not capable enough, can’t handle responsibilities, and just seek to escape from life.
Men with a bit of sense wouldn’t engage in extramarital affairs.
No matter how much a woman burdens them, they won’t let anyone drag them down.