Love is about spending time together under the moonlight and having romantic adventures. Marriage, on the other hand, is about the everyday grind of life and the reality of a simple life.
When you’re dating, you want to spend your whole life with each other and you feel like you’ve known each other forever.
But when you’re married, sometimes the love between you grows cold.
A good marriage is built over time. It’s about two people working together to build a life full of love and happiness in the everyday grind.
You don’t need fancy dates to show love. You can show love in the little things you do every day. Like cooking together, eating together, doing chores together, and making each other’s favorite meals.
In a marriage, you can tell how strong the love is just by looking at who cooks.
Men who love to cook, love to make meals for the people they love. They want to share a meal with the person they care about. They’re willing to help out with the chores around the house.
You can tell how long a couple will stay together by how often the husband cooks.
Men Who Don’t Cook Often Don’t Know How to Build a Strong Marriage
You don’t know how much work goes into something until you try it yourself.
Men who never cook in a marriage often don’t know how to build a strong marriage. They don’t understand what their wives need in a marriage.
Men who never cook in a marriage often don’t understand how hard it is for women to cook.
They often complain about the food and pick at it. They blame their wives for not buying the right ingredients or not cooking it right.
They don’t realize how much effort their wives put into cooking the meals.
They think it’s their wife’s job to cook. It’s just something she’s supposed to do.
I know a woman who cooked for her husband for almost 40 years. He never cooked a single meal for her. One year, they had a lot of guests coming over.
Her husband didn’t want to spend a lot of money eating out, so he asked her to cook.
She was happy to cook, but she asked her husband to go to the market with her to buy groceries. He refused. He said that was women’s work. She ended up going to the market alone, feeling very upset.
She had to carry two big bags of groceries all the way home. She had to stop and rest four times along the way. Every time she stopped, she felt even angrier at her husband.
She spent the whole morning making lunch and the whole afternoon making dinner. She was exhausted. Finally, she couldn’t hold it in anymore. She said, “Cooking is really hard work. You never help me!”
He immediately shot back, “Cooking is women’s work! Look at all the women in the world. They all have to cook.”
At that moment, her heart sank. She had cooked for him for almost 40 years. He never understood how hard she worked, and he rarely even waited for her to eat with him.
At that moment, she decided to get a divorce. She was 60 years old.
Men who don’t cook often don’t put in as much effort as their wives.
Their wives do all the little things around the house. Even when their wives are tired, sick, or worn out, they don’t even think about cooking for them.
They expect their wives to cook for them, even when they’re sick.
The less a man helps around the house, the less he loves his wife.
Men Who Love to Cook Are More Responsible
Men who love to cook in a marriage know how to care for their wives and build a strong family.
Even though it seems like a small thing, when a man cooks, it shows how much he’s willing to participate in the family and how much he cares about his wife.
When a man cooks for his wife, it’s his way of showing love.
Men who love to cook will always be willing to cook, whether it’s for guests or friends.
They’re willing to do the little things around the house to make their wives’ lives easier.
Men who cook are showing their love for their families.
In a happy marriage, both the husband and wife will want to cook. They’ll try to make each other’s favorite meals.
You can tell how long a couple will stay together just by looking at how often the husband cooks. The more a man loves his wife, the more he’ll cook.
It’s not that men love to cook. It’s that they want to make their everyday lives more romantic and loving.
In every family, cooking is a common part of everyday life. But it can also show how strong the relationship is between the husband and wife.
When couples love each other, they’re willing to share the everyday chores of a marriage. Even things like cooking and cleaning up.
In many marriages, the wife does all the cooking. She thinks her husband doesn’t cook well, or that he works too hard and doesn’t have time to cook.
But this can make the husband feel less and less involved in the marriage. He starts to feel like he’s not needed.
Smart women know how to get their husbands to cook with them or let them cook.
A good marriage is about sharing the everyday grind. It’s about cooking together, enjoying delicious meals, and living a happy life together.