Life is like a picture that is gradually being colored in. Some people carefully paint it, making it colorful and beautiful.
Others scribble on it randomly, losing its original appearance and making it impossible to restore.
Life has surprising joys, heartwarming emotions, and many troubles.
Every day, you face people and situations that you can’t predict or control.
Often, those troubles are like chains that bind you tightly, making it hard to break free. Life becomes heavy and disappointing.
Troubles Will Seep Into Every Aspect of Life
“Life is like a journey, and I am a traveler.”
When you were young, you always wished you would grow up quickly. You thought that as an adult, you could do whatever you wanted, go wherever you wanted, and be free.
When you enter society, you realize how complex people are. You see the hypocrisy and scheming in relationships, and you long to return to the carefree days of childhood.
By middle age, you’ve lived half your life. But you feel like you’ve accomplished nothing, and you haven’t been able to make your parents or children proud.
But this is life. Life is rich and colorful because it’s not perfect. No one’s life is truly perfect.
Everyone has troubles and worries. The key is how you view them and how you solve them.
Learn to live with a relaxed attitude, and you’ll have fewer troubles. Cherish what you have now and try to make your life as good as possible.
The dreams you can’t achieve and the goals you can’t reach become a corner of your heart. Treasure them, and don’t dwell on them. The more you dwell, the less happy you’ll be.
Troubles in This World Are Caused by Overthinking
“He that is too much in the habit of thinking, will lose the enjoyment of life.”
Life is long, but you feel small. You feel like a tiny wave in the ocean, ordinary and insignificant.
But life isn’t like a wave. Life is full of ups and downs, joys and sorrows. There are things you want to hold onto, and things you want to forget.
Always worrying about things you shouldn’t, always blindly fearing, makes life feel like it’s full of dangers. Your mood will become tense.
Don’t worry about things that haven’t happened yet, and don’t always think about the worst-case scenario. Live each day well, and you won’t regret coming to this world.
When you have too much worry in your heart and can’t release it, it’s like the trash in a landfill. The more trash piles up, the more it rots and stinks without timely cleanup.
It’s the same with your mood. Learn to release your worries.
On a sunny day, invite a few friends out to relax, have a meal together, and chat. You’ll find your mood is brighter and happier.
If you always shut yourself off, overthinking, your mindset will only get worse.
Throw away your worries and embrace the joy of life. That’s what you should do.
The Reason People Are So Troubled Is Because They Can’t Let Go
In this world, only the word “love” is the hardest to let go of. Because of love, life has expectations, hopes, and a direction to chase.
At the same time, because you can’t let go, you develop obsessions. When a relationship ends, you can’t let go, you can’t move on. You stubbornly wait, unwilling to walk away.
Those worries are like a bone in your throat, always causing a dull pain when you’re alone at night. They remind you over and over again of the past you can’t let go of.
Actually, a simple life is all you need. You can be self-sufficient, you don’t need to rely on others. You have food to eat, and you have someone you love by your side.
But it’s hard to achieve this simplicity.
Some people can’t let go because they didn’t get what they wanted. They can’t let go, so they always hold a grudge. They can’t move on, and they can’t let the beauty of life shine into their hearts.
Sometimes, you’re the one who ties yourself up. To find happiness, you need to learn to let go, to learn to take things lightly, to learn to let go at the right time.
Once you take a step back, you’ll see a clear blue sky, which will make you feel happy and open.
Only when you walk away will life gradually get better.
When you can’t find the answer, don’t keep looking. Do something more meaningful, make yourself better, and meet better people.
You Are Troubled Because You Can’t Let Go
All your troubles will eventually become the past.
Maybe the river in front of you is too wide to cross right now, but you can choose to slowly gather wood and build a raft. One day, you’ll be able to cross it safely.
Some people understand and see clearly. Maybe they cried, made a fuss, and felt pain, but the next day they packed up all their unhappiness and threw it away with a smile, ready for a fresh start.
Others always try to piece together broken things. This only makes them tired, and they don’t get anything new.
There are no insurmountable obstacles in life, and there are no difficulties you can’t overcome. The only thing you can’t let go of is yourself. Troubles are born from your own mind.
In this world, humans are so small. Those worries, difficulties, tests, and challenges that you thought would crush you will eventually disappear with the sunrise. When you open your eyes, it’s a new day.
Don’t let the unpleasant things in life take up most of your time. Learn to dispel your troubles on your own, and you’ll become strong and meet a better future.
You Are Troubled Because You Can’t Let Go. Learn to Let Go and Take Things Lightly.
Contentment is often the simplest way to have the greatest happiness. Because you have few troubles, happiness is easy to find, and life becomes easy.
People who are burdened by troubles always walk with heavy steps, with dark clouds above their heads. They think the world is full of bad things and unkindness.
Over time, they become resentful and constantly complain.
Learn to take things lightly, to cherish the simple joys and good health you have, and to work hard to achieve the happiness you want.
Try to let go of the people and things that are gone. At any stage of life, you have the right and courage to start over, to chase your dreams again.