You’re not doing well, and it’s possible that some toxic people are stealing your energy and vitality.
You’ve been dealing with someone for a while, and suddenly, your emotions turn sour, your mood becomes pessimistic, and life seems dull;
They constantly belittle your abilities, mock your hobbies, and even trample your dignity, making you feel extremely drained mentally;
They approach you, and even before they open their mouths, you feel uneasy; the longer you’re with them, the more your emotions fluctuate, and life seems to lose its luster?
The people around you are slowly draining your energy, sucking the happiness out of you, and making you trapped in endless mental exhaustion.
The truly important things in life are invisible to the naked eye, but can be seen clearly with the heart.
One person who makes you feel these 3 things is a warning from heaven to stay away from them.
Increasingly Insecure
You’re afraid of conflicting with them, so you always put on a low-key, awkward smile, and are hesitant to refuse their requests, pretending to be a good person, but they take you for a pushover;
You live in fear of offending them, being overly polite, and always putting yourself down to please them, just to make them happy;
They give you a small favor, and you’re extremely grateful, thinking of ways to repay them that night;
Don’t be someone who always tries to repay others for their small favors.
In fact, most people with low self-esteem don’t have major issues with their abilities, but they feel they’re not good enough.
Why do you have such thoughts? Because someone has been suppressing you for a long time.
To put it simply, no matter how excellent you are, people who suppress you will always find ways .
The essence of low self-esteem is not a problem with abilities, but that no matter what you do, they’ll always tell you you’re wrong.
You’ll doubt yourself because of their negation, but is that really good?
Even if they pretend to be good to you, please stay away from them.
Remember, you’re the main character in your life.
When you learn to ignore some things, filter out distractions, and focus on your growth, your life will become peaceful.
One-Sided Giving
All relationships are two-way, so stay away from those that make you feel exhausted and disgusted.
When you’re overly friendly to someone, but they don’t appreciate it, and their level is low, they’ll think you’re trying to suck up to them;
You take them out, take photos, and edit them carefully, but they just glance at them carelessly;
You always try to initiate conversations, but they don’t open up, and even though you seem to get along on the surface, there’s no spiritual connection;
You always pay the bill when you eat out, and they think it’s only right;
They don’t initiate conversations, and even when they do, it’s worthless; they promise to do things but disappear, and are very accurate with others;
They’re used to everyone revolving around them, making unconditional sacrifices, and getting no feedback;
Stay away from “one-sided giving” and cut your losses; don’t bother explaining.
In human interactions, it’s better to say less and control your desire to express yourself.
Some people will never be satisfied, so don’t bother.
Cut ties with people who don’t value you, and cherish those who do.
Many Negative Emotions
When they’re upset, they come to you for comfort, and you patiently analyze and console them, but when you need to talk, they just talk about themselves;
No matter how well you treat them, they still say they’re unhappy, and when you try to cheer them up, they say you’re sick;
When you talk, they always start by saying you’re wrong, then try to prove you’re wrong with their opinions;
Every time you meet, you feel tired and drained, as if your energy is being sucked out;
Just thinking about them makes you feel annoyed and frustrated;
They’re extremely competitive, always comparing themselves to others, and when they can’t compare, they start to envy you and bad-mouth you;
Every person has both good and evil sides, and there’s no one who’s absolutely good or evil; it’s just a matter of which side is triggered.
If you’re normally a good-tempered, emotionally stable person, but you become a different person when you’re with them, always triggering your “evil” side, making you feel jealous, suspicious, and angry…
They always make you feel exhausted and drained, bringing out the worst in you, making you feel like you’re becoming a shrew.
So, their magnetic field and yours don’t match; you’re not in the same circle, and you must stay away from this person.
When jealousy, competitiveness, and envy come together, this person will become very scary; you must stay away.