Some women naively think a man’s sweet words mean he’s deeply in love with them. But really, promises are the weakest kind of proof.
A man might say he loves you and will give you the best life, but if he doesn’t show you anything in your daily life, he’s just blowing smoke.
A man who loves a woman is generous. He doesn’t care too much about money. If it makes you happy, he’ll give you anything.
If a man is willing to give you these things, that’s a sign he truly loves you.
Emma says, “My boyfriend bought me a house so I could have a place to live and not have to depend on anyone else.”
I grew up in a family that favored boys over girls. As a kid, I didn’t even have my own room and didn’t get much education.
After I started working and making some money, my parents demanded I send it back to them.
Of course, I didn’t want to. They were furious and told me not to come home anymore.
One year, I went home for the holidays. They didn’t show any affection towards me, so I left after less than a day.
After I started dating my boyfriend, I always said how badly I wanted to work hard and buy my own house so I wouldn’t have to rely on anyone.
My boyfriend knew my family situation was complicated and he felt bad for me. To make my life easier, he saved up money and bought me a house.
To be honest, I was very touched. It wasn’t a small amount of money.
We weren’t even married yet, and he was already doing so much for me. I felt a little bad.
But my boyfriend told me not to worry. We’d get married eventually, so it was like buying a house early. He told me not to feel pressured.
Hearing him say that made me believe he was a man I could trust and that he truly loved me. No one has ever been better to me than him.
Alanna says, “In a relationship, I need security. I need to feel like my boyfriend cares about me.”
I’m a very sensitive person. I keep everything bottled up, but I crave someone who understands me.
Before I even say anything, I want someone to see through my act and see how vulnerable I really am.
After I started dating my boyfriend, I went through a period where I was very emotionally unstable. I was always overthinking things.
My boyfriend noticed my mood swings and took care of my feelings. He showed it in little ways.
When I had a blank expression, it usually meant something was bothering me. He would talk to me and tell me not to worry.
He’d also share his daily life with me. Like what he had for lunch or what he did that day.
These things might seem small, but I lack security. When he shares these things with me, it makes me feel at ease.
At least I know he wants to communicate with me. Our lives are connected.
My boyfriend also makes sure to keep his distance from other women. He generally doesn’t interact with them. He mostly hangs out with his guy friends.
Women can easily get anxious and lose control in a relationship. They need their partner to give them security.
If he can make you feel secure and stop you from being suspicious, he’s doing a pretty good job.
Charlotte says, “When you’re at your lowest, a man who’s still willing to be by your side, support you, and encourage you is more valuable than anything.”
Early last year, I got really sick. My work completely stopped. My illness was pretty serious, so I was always pessimistic and afraid I wouldn’t get better.
At that time, I kept thinking, “If my boyfriend leaves me, I’d rather break up with him first. At least I wouldn’t be so heartbroken.”
So I told my boyfriend I wanted to break up, but he didn’t agree. He said no matter what happened to me, he’d always be by my side because I was the person he loved.
With his support and encouragement, I actively sought treatment and eventually beat the disease.
Thinking back to when I was sick, my boyfriend quit his job to stay with me and take care of me.
I felt bad for putting him through that, but he said money could always be earned, but being there for me was the most important thing.
You really see who’s true to you in times of trouble. After that illness, I realized who truly cared about me.
This year, my boyfriend and I switched careers to sales. We haven’t had much success yet.
But having him by my side, I feel like I can overcome any obstacle. We might not have money now, but we can earn it.
The most important thing is to cherish the people in your life and don’t give up on true love. Otherwise, you’ll regret it for the rest of your life.
A man who just spends a little money on you or says sweet nothings doesn’t truly love you. Because that kind of effort is too cheap.
If a man is willing to spend a lot of money on you, take care of your emotions, give you a sense of security, and comfort and support you in your darkest times, then he truly loves you.
Because that kind of sacrifice is too big to fake. It can only come from true love.