Life is like a giant stage.
The people you thought you’d never forget become memories you can’t even recall.
Maybe one night, feeling the summer breeze, watching the stars, you’ll remember the past, but what’s lost is lost.
If a man does this to you, he’s decided to give up on your relationship. You’re just a memory now.
He’s Already Moved On to a New Relationship
My friend told me about her ex.
They were high school classmates, went to the same college, and got closer. After graduation, they moved back to their hometown and became a couple.
He wanted to get married quickly. He thought they didn’t need to get to know each other anymore. They’d known each other for years, had similar educations, and their parents approved.
Everything seemed perfect, but my friend felt like their relationship hadn’t really started yet. She wanted to wait.
They disagreed, and he said if she didn’t want to get married, they should break up.
She felt like he didn’t understand her. They started ignoring each other. When she finally decided to call him, he told her he had a new girlfriend and they were getting married.
If you’re holding a cup, you can’t hold another one. If someone has you in their heart, they can’t hold anyone else.
But if he chooses to welcome someone else into his life, it means he’s letting go of you.
You’re No Longer Important to Him
What does it mean to not love someone anymore? It’s not hate.
It’s when they’re in front of you, and you feel nothing.
I remember dating a guy. We broke up, but he didn’t want to. I forced myself to cut off contact.
One day, I was alone, eating in a small alley. I saw him.
I thought he’d ignore me and ride away. I thought he’d try to cling to me, acting like a child.
But he just said hello casually and left without looking back.
None of my imagined scenarios happened. He treated me like a random friend.
I don’t remember why, but I texted him later. He replied with just two words. He didn’t say anything else, and he didn’t contact me again.
When a man loves you, he’ll be happy when you’re happy, sad when you’re sad. He’ll be happy or sad depending on how close or far apart you are.
You can control his emotions. He’ll be happy or sad based on your happiness or sadness.
But if he decides to let go, you’re no longer important to him.
Breaking up and getting back together is normal in relationships.
So I often think that breaking contact isn’t always bad.
Sometimes, it’s a chance to reflect on the relationship.
But breaking contact is still a bad sign. If he decides to let go, it’s a sign that the relationship is over.