From a woman’s perspective, when faced with a man who pursues her, we need to have our own attitude. Regardless of whether we like him or not, we must have our own attitude.
Even if we really like him, we must still maintain our own attitude. The right attitude allows us to have accurate principles and judgment. This way, if we’re truly together, we can harvest our own happiness.
Perhaps many women don’t understand this logic. In reality, if we think about it from a practical perspective, we’ll naturally understand. Truly awesome women have only 3 words for men who pursue them, and that’s being really smart. These 3 words are: hard to pursue. How do we understand this?
Hard to Pursue Means Letting Him Eat Some Bitter Fruit and Testing His Sincerity.
Let’s think about it. If we’re too easy to pursue, how will the man look at us? He didn’t have to put in any effort, and he got us easily. This way, we can’t examine the man’s sincerity.
So, women need to understand this logic.
By doing so, we’re letting the man eat some bitter fruit, and then we can examine him through this logic.
The specific extent of this examination, we can control it ourselves. But we can’t do without this examination.
After all, at the beginning, we’re all strangers. We don’t know this man, so we can only use this method to achieve our goal.
I believe most women will understand this.
Since we understand, when we face a man’s pursuit, we shouldn’t easily agree to his pursuit. We can set up some obstacles, set up some examinations, and then observe the man’s attitude. After comprehensive consideration, we can make our choice.
If we pass our examination, we can give the man a chance. This way, we can truly grasp the initiative. We can also truly understand whether the man is sincere or not.
Hard to Pursue Is a Reflection of Your Value.
The harder you are to pursue, the higher your value is. Of course, it’s not about being unreasonable or having an inflated sense of self-importance.
It’s about having real power. If you’re just overestimating yourself, that’s not what we’re talking about.
Everyone needs to understand this.
In other words, if you have this value, you need to let the man understand your value. Then, let him know that if he wants to pursue you, he needs to have corresponding value.
If the man’s value is not enough to match yours, that’s his problem. At this point, a smart man will usually stop pursuing and go improve himself.
So, when we face a man’s pursuit, we can only use this strategy to tell the man about our value.
This way, the man will also have a clear understanding of the situation.
And we’ll have a comprehensive understanding of the entire situation.
If we do have a romantic relationship in the future, we won’t be too passive. After all, we’ve proven our value through this method. At the same time, we can also understand the man’s value.
Hard to Pursue Is Actually a Game of Wits; Don’t Let the Man Take You Lightly.
Women need to understand that emotional matters are a game. Whether the man takes the initiative to pursue you or you pursue the man, if you’re together, it’s a game.
The best state is to reach a balanced state.
And this balance depends on you to grasp.
Through this hard-to-pursue strategy, we can let the man slowly get familiar with us, and we can slowly grind together. At the same time, we’re playing a game of wits with the man. In the end, we can reach a balanced state.
At this point, when you’re together, you can truly harvest happiness.
In the end, harvesting happiness is this logic.
For women, when facing a man’s pursuit, we need to think from a long-term perspective and see the essence of things. Don’t be misled by the man’s superficial skills.
This way, we’ll have an accurate judgment of our emotions.
For women, when facing a man’s pursuit, we need to be calm and composed. Many times, it’s because we can’t keep our cool that we get taken advantage of by men.
We need to know that it’s actually the man who’s anxious. As long as we keep our cool, we can easily handle many things.
Otherwise, we’ll lose our rhythm. If we get taken advantage of by the man, it’ll be hard to harvest happiness later on.
So, don’t easily agree to the man’s pursuit. We must let the man understand that we’re a hard-to-pursue woman.
As long as we can achieve this goal, we can take the initiative in many things. This way, we can grasp our emotions better.
So, women need to understand this logic.