In fact, there is always a reason behind the silence and lack of response.
It’s not about being busy, forgetting to reply, or not seeing the message. It’s simply because they feel it’s unnecessary.
From chatting enthusiastically, sharing life stories, to wanting to know more about you; all these efforts were made because they liked you.
When all these efforts are withdrawn, it means one thing: you are no longer important to them.
They choose to stop contacting you without a word, not even willing to explain face to face. They prefer to use the silent treatment to cool off the relationship.
Avoiding responsibility and leaving others to guess is not the behavior of someone with integrity.
So, faced with sudden coldness, even after trying to reach out, lowering your stance for better communication, and receiving no response, there’s no need to persist.
Instead of pushing for answers or asking them to turn back, it’s better to respect their decision and give them space, which is more effective than being persistent.
In relationships, it’s often about who loves more, who suffers more, who invests more, who struggles to let go, who can’t move on, who endures pain, who talks more, and who loses.
If you still can’t let go and want to observe their attitude, let the relationship cool off.
Don’t inquire about their whereabouts or reasons, don’t make a fuss, don’t care, and don’t dwell on the lack of contact. Give them the space and time they need.
During this time, focus on work, learn new recipes, make desserts, practice yoga, arrange flowers, go camping with friends, learn new skills, and meet new people.
In short, channel your energy from overthinking into self-improvement and self-focus.
If they still care, they will respond once they notice your unusual behavior.
When the time comes and they still choose to disappear, and your changes go unnoticed, it means it’s all unnecessary.
Their attitude towards you during this period is their decision.
So, there’s nothing to regret or lament. Missing you indicates they were not the right person.
Cherish the Fate that Teaches You to Let Go, Let Go of the Fate that Walks Away.
When someone no longer needs you and views your contact as a disturbance, it’s time to turn around, to benefit both them and yourself.
If genuine efforts receive no response, then it’s time to stop here.
Exiting gracefully is dignified and wise for adults.