Sometimes, love is like a beautiful glass ball.
It can’t handle any bumps, it breaks with a single touch.
It’s like being with someone, thinking you’ll be together forever, only to find out you were just passing ships in the night.
You just pass each other by, he’s not the one.
If a man changes his mind, he’ll show you these signs.
He’s Only Thinking About Himself With You
A woman hadn’t even finished her postpartum recovery, and she wanted a divorce from her husband. The reason? She saw through his family’s true colors while she was pregnant and giving birth, and she knew they weren’t worth trusting.
At first, the husband didn’t want a divorce, he begged her to stay.
But when he saw her resolve, he changed his tune.
He secretly talked to his mom about how to best transfer his assets.
He bought real estate in his mom’s name, thinking he wouldn’t have to give his wife a penny in the divorce.
He didn’t think about how his wife would live with a child and no job if they divorced.
If a man doesn’t love you, you can feel it.
Especially when you run into something that goes against his interests, you can see his ugliness. He’s calculating, and he doesn’t care about your feelings.
A husband should be your closest confidant, but when he doesn’t love you, he’s your enemy.
He’s Fallen for Someone Else and Wants a Divorce
Lucy always thought she was a lucky woman:
Her husband was a company executive, making millions a year, and she never needed to worry about money. They lived in a nice house, and she had a maid to help with the housework. All she had to do was enjoy herself.
But she never saw it coming. Things changed slowly, and she didn’t realize that the sweet marriage she was so proud of was falling apart behind her back.
One morning, she woke up and saw her husband sitting at the head of the bed. She said hello, like she always did, without a hint of worry.
But he said, “We need to get a divorce.”
She finally understood what was going on. Her husband had a girlfriend, and he’d fallen for his coworker while they were still married.
Lucy was shocked, heartbroken, and she begged him to stay, but he wouldn’t change his mind.
When a man’s heart wanders, his mind goes elsewhere. He doesn’t want to stay with you or work on your relationship.
He just wants to leave you and find the happiness he wants.
His Words Are Sharp and He Doesn’t Care About Your Feelings
I was with my ex for two years, and when I heard him break up with me, I was anxious and upset.
I asked him if I had done something wrong, something that made him want to leave, and I promised to change.
But he just looked at me with disgust and was determined to leave.
I was a little heartbroken, and I asked him what to do with the special phone we used to talk on.
I thought he’d be sad about the price of the phone, or that he’d remember our past and stay.
But he said, “It’s not like it’s worth a lot, and you used it. I don’t want it back. Throw it away if you want. I don’t want to see it.”
His words were like daggers, stabbing my heart.
When a man’s love is gone, he’s like a rose with only thorns.
He’ll be stingy with his tenderness and won’t treat you well.
Maybe he’s not a bad person, but he’s just acting like a villain because he wants to leave you.
If he’s not a villain, it’s harder to break things off with you.
You Can’t Fake Love, and You Can’t Force Someone to Stay.
Don’t wait until you lose love to learn to appreciate it. A “lock the barn door after the horse is gone” attitude is just a source of regret in love.
Work hard for love while you still have a chance.
Of course, if a man wants to change his mind, it’s ultimately up to him, and it’s not necessarily your fault.
If he’s determined to leave, don’t blame yourself for everything that went wrong.
You should love freely when you can. If you’ve worked hard for a love that’s about to end, that’s enough.