When a man doesn’t love a woman, it doesn’t matter if she cries, stays silent, breathes, or dies. It’s all wrong.
Love and not loving are obvious.
When a man no longer loves you, no matter how hard you try, you can’t get into his heart.
When a man has an affair and wants out of a marriage, he’ll show his worst side.
If you see any of these signs, don’t love him anymore.
He Doesn’t See Your Good Qualities
After Lloyd got a girlfriend, he started picking on his wife.
Anyone who knows the truth knows that Lloyd’s girlfriend is not as good as his wife in many ways.
His girlfriend is average-looking, has an average job, and isn’t very educated. She’s ten years older than Lloyd. Her biggest feature is that she’s outgoing and really open about sex. That’s what Lloyd is obsessed with.
Lloyd’s wife is much better in every way. She’s pretty, successful, and has a great education. She’s well-mannered, polite, and well-respected by the whole family.
But when Lloyd is obsessed with his girlfriend, he ignores all his wife’s good qualities.
She’s pretty? “She’s not that pretty after you see her for a while.” She’s a good homemaker? “She’s too bossy. She always tries to control me.” She’s well-educated? “Education doesn’t matter compared to how good she is in bed…”
In short, his wife is worse than his girlfriend in every way. The more people praise his wife, the more he tries to be humble and criticize her.
Respect Is More Important Than Love
Love and respect go hand in hand. A man who truly loves you will be attracted to your good qualities. He’ll see your strengths, acknowledge your excellence, and praise you.
If his love for you is gone, even if you’re perfect and amazing, he’ll find fault and criticize you.
He’ll put you down and make you feel bad. He wants you to doubt yourself and think that his cheating is your fault. He wants you to think you’re not as good as his girlfriend.
Your Efforts Become Worthless
Emma was a perfect wife for ten years. She took care of the house, her in-laws, the kids, and the family. She did everything perfectly.
She also had a successful career. She went from a low-level employee to a manager in ten years. She worked really hard and earned a lot of money for the family.
The only thing the man had to worry about was going to work and managing his business.
But even though Emma did all that, the man still cheated on her. And when she found out, he blamed her: “You’re bossy and controlling. You’re always putting yourself first. We’ve been married for ten years, and you’ve never cared about me. I work my butt off for this family, and you never say thank you. You just enjoy the fruits of my labor!”
Emma said she almost had a heart attack when she heard that.
When a man has another woman, he doesn’t love you anymore. He doesn’t value what you do for him. He’ll deny your worth and make you feel insecure. He’ll make you think everything is your fault.
He’s just trying to excuse his actions.
The Truth Will Come Out
The only things you can’t look at directly are the sun and a person’s heart.
When a man wants out of a marriage, he’ll criticize you and put you down to make himself feel better.
Now is the time to be smart. Look at the situation and make a wise decision.