Why do “bad girls” always find good guys?
When I met a “bad girl” in my life and felt disgusted, I found that she always managed to hook up with good guys. This made me think deeply about life and the world. Why do bad women have many men, even good men, chasing them with unwavering belief? Should I learn to be a “bad girl”?
Because she’s a “bad girl”! She’s practiced, and to put it another way, she definitely avoids “bad boys.” This isn’t a martial arts tournament or a showdown. It’s about finding the right customer!
Only so-called “good guys,” “honest men” who crave love, are profitable!
Some people think they can’t be long-term meal tickets, so they just want some fun. Some people say they have needs too! That’s completely wrong. It’s the “good guys” who have needs. If they really want to sleep with someone, they can, and it can satisfy both parties’ needs. It satisfies their physical needs and their material needs!
But some guys might be blinded by their pursuit of girls and can’t see the “bad” side. This leads to a problem: they keep giving, buying gifts, even spending lavishly to support them, giving them allowance, sharing their credit card and “close friends” payment. They use their “close friends” payment on WeChat to pay for their purchases. Later, they realize they can’t keep up. The expense is beyond their means. So they break up. The girl might even make them feel like it’s their fault and apologize for breaking up!
All that money spent was wasted. Some girls even ask for money and gifts, and the guy just stays silent and lets it go. Those good guys still think they were wrong because they didn’t even get to sleep with her!
Some girls might become long-term meal tickets because they have resources and plenty of money. So they can be “bad” long-term. The guy just needs to pay more! They might even consider marriage. These “good guys” are very selective. They screen good guys, categorize them, and then break them down one by one. During this process, they might have multiple needs and be stepping on multiple boats!
Maybe you can satisfy my financial needs but not keep me company. You keep me company but can’t satisfy my needs. I need to find someone who can satisfy my sexual needs!
Why does this phenomenon exist in society? On the one hand, many people’s moral values have been shattered! They see this behavior as a way of life, even a job.
On the other hand, there are opportunities to take advantage of people. There are “bad girls” and “bad boys.” Normal guys and girls learn to watch and be wary of each other. But “bad boys” and “bad girls” learn to disguise themselves. When you’re desperate for love and can’t find it, they appear like saviors!
Just like many people looking for boyfriends and girlfriends online, they search endlessly without success. Either the guys don’t respond or they use cheesy pick-up lines on free platforms. No one replies!
Then one day, a decent-looking person starts chatting with you, and they’re responsive and fun to talk to. You realize they understand you and you can talk about anything. You think it’s rare to find someone like that, so you try to get to know them. They start making demands and requests. They start trapping you with small amounts of money and then larger amounts. Finally, you realize something’s wrong, but it’s too late!
The saddest thing in this world is that it’s hard to find someone who’s attracted to you. If you do find someone who’s attracted to you, you need to carefully evaluate them. Even if you’re smart and have a high emotional intelligence, if you can’t rationally judge human nature and look at things from an outsider’s perspective, you’ll be confused! So it’s important to learn and grow.