A lot of women in marriages are confused about one thing:
Why do guys think those women are so amazing, even though they’re obviously fake and manipulative? It’s obvious, right?
It’s different how women see women and how men see women.
Men and women are basically two different species.
Besides, life is like a play, and it all depends on your acting. This is especially true for “green tea” girls. They have their own set of tricks for manipulating men, and wives might actually be worse.
People are greedy. Who doesn’t like someone who flatters them?
That Damn Sweetness Is Their Secret Weapon
Even though his wife is beautiful and capable, Kent still had an affair.
When comparing the two women, Kent used a very poetic description:
His wife is like a red rose. She’s fiery, passionate, strong, and practical. She’s a great life partner.
His mistress is like a white rose. She’s soft, pure, always gentle and sweet. She’s so delicate, just looking at her makes you feel weak and your ego explodes.
Kent said that whenever he had problems at work or something stressful happened in his life, he only wanted to talk to the other woman. No matter what he said, she would always comfort him softly or just listen quietly. She wouldn’t complain, criticize, or give him advice.
But his wife was different. She would criticize and complain and make all kinds of demands. It was stressful just thinking about it.
Kent was very direct about whether he could tell that the other woman was a typical “green tea” girl.
“Men aren’t stupid. Of course, I can see it. But I’m not marrying her, so why should I care? I just want to enjoy her sweetness, even if she’s faking it. As long as she keeps faking it, I’ll believe her.”
Life is already hard enough. Who wants to go home after a busy day to someone who’s full of negative energy? Women who can control their emotions are understanding and considerate.
The biggest advantage of “green tea” girls is that they’re very good at hiding and controlling their emotions in front of men. They always maintain a sweet, understanding, and considerate image. This is a major reason why men like “green tea” girls.
Full of Energy, Always Beautiful and Refined
No woman is loved because of her beautiful soul.
Men are basically visual creatures. Even though they preach “a pretty face is all the same, but a good soul is one in a million,” deep down, they’re more likely to fall for a pretty face.
Elmo cheated on his wife because he thought she didn’t dress up enough, while the other woman was always energetic, beautiful, and refined.
Elmo and his wife were a couple who had been through a lot. They had been married for 15 years and had gone through a lot of hardship to get to where they are now with a car and a house.
After their financial situation improved, Elmo tried to convince his wife to treat herself better by buying some high-end cosmetics and some nice clothes. But even though he told her many times, she stayed simple and plain. She said that she had gotten used to it over the years and that their kids were getting older, so they had a lot of expenses. She said she wanted to save the money and use it for important things.
This kind of simple and low-key style couldn’t satisfy Elmo’s already inflated ego. So, he fell into the beauty trap of the other woman.
The other woman always dressed up beautifully. Even though she was busy with work and short on time, she would still make time to put on beautiful makeup. And no matter how tired she was from work, she never missed her three yoga classes a week, rain or shine.
Elmo had to admit that the other woman was very dedicated to her appearance.
Because of her beautiful appearance, Elmo almost left his wife and kids.
There’s a saying, “Know yourself and your enemy, and you can win a hundred battles.”
Even though “green tea” girls are fake and manipulative and have low moral standards, they know how to play the victim and understand human nature. Their emotional and appearance management skills are very good at attracting men.
Once you understand “green tea” girls, you understand men.