If a woman doesn’t like a man’s pursuit, she will often reject him. And rejection can be direct or indirect.
In relationships, women are very practical. If someone doesn’t meet their requirements, they basically won’t give them a chance. It’s just that they’re worried about losing face, so they usually reject men indirectly. This logic is something men need to understand.
Generally, most women who reject men’s pursuits do so indirectly. But men can still sense it. Therefore, men need to read between the lines.
When a woman wants to reject your pursuit, she often uses these three methods. Don’t be oblivious, guys!
Setting High Standards to Make You Give Up
This point is actually easy to understand. The higher the standards, the more unattainable they become. In this situation, men basically lose confidence. As a result, many men will give up pursuing her.
In this way, the woman achieves her goal.
So, when you find a woman constantly raising her standards, it’s actually a way of setting higher bars. What she said before will change again later. When you complete her set standards, she’ll give you more obstacles.
Overall, you can’t see any hope. When this happens, it’s actually the woman intentionally making things difficult for you.
The woman wants to tell you to stop pursuing her because she’s not interested in you. At this point, any man with a bit of sense will know to cut their losses.
Because the woman’s actions are already very clear, only foolish men won’t understand.
For men, when encountering such situations, don’t get discouraged. Remember, no matter what, if it’s not suitable, there’s no need to continue. We can’t love someone in a humiliating way.
Rejecting Your Efforts
A woman might say, “We’re not familiar with each other, don’t put in too much effort.” It seems like the woman is considering you, but in reality, she’s rejecting your pursuit.
Logically, if a woman accepts your pursuit, she’ll gradually accept your kindness towards her. Your efforts, she’ll accept, and later, she’ll give you some returns.
This back-and-forth can create feelings. This is the rhythm of wanting to talk about love.
If a woman keeps rejecting your efforts, it’s actually a rejection of your pursuit. This logic, men need to understand. Because she doesn’t accept your pursuit, she won’t accept your kindness towards her.
This is the basic logic of women in love.
For men, if you don’t even understand this, then your emotional IQ is too low.
When encountering such situations, just let go. Many women, when rejecting men’s pursuits, love to use this method. Because it’s a default rejection.
Exaggerating One’s Flaws, Praising You as a Good Person
Many men have experienced this kind of rejection. Women intentionally say they’re not good enough, and they can’t get along with anyone.
At the same time, they’ll praise you, saying you’re very good.
The implication is: I’m not good, you’re very good, I’m not worthy of you.
The woman uses this method to reject your pursuit. Men should understand this.
Since the woman has put in so much effort to reject you, men shouldn’t make things difficult for her. In emotional matters, it’s originally like this. If there’s no fate, don’t force it.
Actually, many men still won’t let go at this point. The key reason is that they’re unwilling to give up. But even if you’re unwilling, it’s useless.
Because emotional matters can’t be forced.
This logic, everyone should understand.
For men, when you decide to pursue a woman, if you’ve pursued her for a while and still haven’t made progress, you need to look at the reality of the situation.
Sometimes, women’s rejections are indirect. If you combine all the judgments and confirm that the woman is rejecting you, then there’s no need to make things difficult for yourself.
After all, in the world of emotions, we should first take care of our own gains and losses. If there’s no fate, then let go early. Later, we can truly encounter our own fate.
No matter how much you like this girl, if she doesn’t like you, there’s nothing you can do. After all, emotions are about mutual consent.
You’re willing, but the girl doesn’t like you. You can only sigh and say, “It’s not meant to be.”
Men need to understand this point.
So, when encountering such situations, don’t get tangled up. The best approach is to cut your losses early. This is good for everyone.