Everyone has different goals, and their lifestyles reflect that.
Some people crave the romance of love, dreaming of a cozy and happy family life. Others just see love as a little spice in life, not something they’d actively chase.
Women who have been single for a while don’t get all mopey just because they don’t have a boyfriend. They don’t let low self-esteem and loneliness creep into their lives, hoping for some magical love to come down from the sky and save them.
Here’s how women who haven’t had a “boyfriend” for a long time behave.
They Have Their Own Life Goals and Live Richly
Ava, after going through a love that left her heartbroken, stopped talking about relationships.
It wasn’t that she hadn’t moved on from her ex. It’s that she felt love was too draining, and it slowed her down from chasing her career.
After getting over that relationship, she put all her energy into reaching her goals.
Every day, she’s in meetings, discussing plans with coworkers, and tracking project progress. She’s super busy.
In her free time, she gets facials, does yoga, has tea with her best friends, and goes shopping. Or, she watches movies alone, listens to music, and enjoys her own company.
Her best friend sometimes tries to convince her to find a boyfriend, but she thinks her life is pretty good as it is and doesn’t want to change anything.
Single women know what they want.
They have their own life goals and can dedicate more energy and focus to them than others.
They live full and rich lives, not caring about what others think or say. They’re strong and open-minded.
Women who haven’t had a boyfriend for a while have actually started to enjoy their single lives, the freedom, and the cool factor.
They take responsibility for their own lives and live their best lives in the precious time they have.
They Don’t Settle, They’re Looking for a “Soulmate”
“I thought love could fill the gaps in life, but it turns out love is what creates more gaps.”
If a woman rushes into a relationship and puts all her hopes on a man, she’ll only end up getting hurt.
Women who have been single for a long time have their own standards and requirements for a partner and aren’t willing to compromise easily.
They want to find a true soulmate, someone who understands them.
If two people are together, they need to be on the same wavelength and have lots of unspoken understanding.
For example, she just needs to start a topic, and she and her partner can talk endlessly, with a constant flow of ideas.
Women who have been single for a long time hope to find a soulmate who clicks with them. They can lean on each other, trust and support each other fully at any time, and always be there for each other, no matter what.
If they haven’t met their ideal partner, they won’t settle for less.
When it comes to love, they’d rather be alone than give up their standards just to find someone.
They Enjoy Life and Are True to Themselves
Eliana is almost 30 and doesn’t have a boyfriend. Her coworkers often gossip about her, and her mom keeps calling her to set her up on blind dates, urging her to find a boyfriend.
Eliana doesn’t care. She has her own career and bought a house with her own money.
She’s passionate about food and loves to cook her own steak, grow her own herbs, listen to music, and let food soothe her weary body.
Her house is full of oil paintings, all done by her in her free time. It’s a way for her to express herself.
She hasn’t dated in a while, and she doesn’t have many friends, but she enjoys her life right now.
She has a calm and elegant vibe, which is pleasing to the eye.
Single women know how to love themselves. No matter how many people around them judge or criticize her, she doesn’t take it to heart.
She enjoys her own independence and makes her life fun and fulfilling.
Even though she hasn’t had a boyfriend for a long time, she doesn’t doubt her own attractiveness.
She doesn’t get anxious or stressed out by the pressure from the outside world. When she’s alone, she can find her true self and live authentically.
Women, don’t put your hopes in others. When life gets tough, don’t get discouraged and expect someone else to save you.
If you don’t have anyone by your side, take care of yourself, keep your love for life, and fill your heart with more.
Don’t waste your precious time. Push yourself to grow and become a better version of yourself, so you can have a brighter future.